Almost French

Finally I've finished this book. I know I haven't written a lot about the books I currently read but you know, I'm more into reading than writing (-;

Anyway, I really liked the book, since it portrays these two totally different cultures (Australian-French) in a very authentic and charming way.

The plot, in a nutshell, is that Sarah is backpacking through Europe, meets a French guy, visits him in France, falls in love with him, stays in Paris and finally marries him. That's that (-:

I hate writing summaries as you can see (-;

No, honestly, it's a delightful book, which describes the culture clashes Sahra experiences in a humorous yet authentic way.

What struck me most was that I could kind of identify with Sarah's character. I would describe her as a outgoing, open-minded, straightforward and uncomplicated person and that makes her situation in France very difficult. France is a country where discretion is highly valued and asking personal questions like, what someone does for a living or whether they have children, may be considered inappropriate or even rude. Besides, they are very restrained towards newcomers and have special rules for everything. So it is apparently very very hard for expats to find their way there and to adapt to this totally different culture. France would be just too formal and strict for me. What's more, is the battle among women. They always see each other as rivals and not as potentially new friends. That's something I absolutely despise.

Living in Australia for some time, on the other hand, is something I can imagine quite clearly. It is a great dream of Grex mine to live abroad for a longer periode and Australia is defenitely one of the prefered countries.

I'm happy, though, not to be an expat, since I know from friends that it's no bed of roses and I'm not sure if I could cope with it. You are torn between two nationalities, two cultures, two lives.

Sarah had to adapt to her new life and she has changed a lot during her stay in Paris. She is a warm hearted person but had to learn to be bold and insistant to survive in this big city. I'm not sure if I want to give up my habits and traits to fit into another culture, but that's exactly what you have to do. Well, maybe not give up your identity, but adjust to the situation.

It made me start thinking and I came to the conclusion that for my part travelling is the greatest thing in the world, but I always want to come back home, where my family, my friends and my heart is.

Sorry, once more I got too sentimental. (-:

But it's a topic I'm very into and it interests me a lot.